Hewassufferingfromdisappointmentandregret,grievingoverwhatwas,andwishingforwhatcouldneverbe。
Sheknewitwasso,andwassorry;butitwaswithasorrowsofoundedonsatisfaction,sotendingtoease,andsomuchinharmonywitheverydearestsensation,thattherearefewwhomightnothavebeengladtoexchangetheirgreatestgaietyforit。
SirThomas,poorSirThomas,aparent,andconsciousoferrorsinhisownconductasaparent,wasthelongesttosuffer。
Hefeltthatheoughtnottohaveallowedthemarriage;
thathisdaughter’ssentimentshadbeensufficientlyknowntohimtorenderhimculpableinauthorisingit;thatinsodoinghehadsacrificedtherighttotheexpedient,andbeengovernedbymotivesofselfishnessandworldlywisdom。
Thesewerereflectionsthatrequiredsometimetosoften;
buttimewilldoalmosteverything;andthoughlittlecomfortaroseonMrs。Rushworth’ssideforthemiseryshehadoccasioned,comfortwastobefoundgreaterthanhehadsupposedinhisotherchildren。Julia’smatchbecamealessdesperatebusinessthanhehadconsidereditatfirst。
Shewashumble,andwishingtobeforgiven;andMr。Yates,desirousofbeingreallyreceivedintothefamily,wasdisposedtolookuptohimandbeguided。Hewasnotverysolid;
buttherewasahopeofhisbecominglesstrifling,ofhisbeingatleasttolerablydomesticandquiet;
andatanyrate,therewascomfortinfindinghisestaterathermore,andhisdebtsmuchless,thanhehadfeared,andinbeingconsultedandtreatedasthefriendbestworthattendingto。TherewascomfortalsoinTom,whograduallyregainedhishealth,withoutregainingthethoughtlessnessandselfishnessofhisprevioushabits。
Hewasthebetterforeverforhisillness。Hehadsuffered,andhehadlearnedtothink:twoadvantagesthathehadneverknownbefore;andtheself-reproacharisingfromthedeplorableeventinWimpoleStreet,towhichhefelthimselfaccessorybyallthedangerousintimacyofhisunjustifiabletheatre,madeanimpressiononhismindwhich,attheageofsix-and-twenty,withnowantofsenseorgoodcompanions,wasdurableinitshappyeffects。
Hebecamewhatheoughttobe:usefultohisfather,steadyandquiet,andnotlivingmerelyforhimself。
Herewascomfortindeed!andquiteassoonasSirThomascouldplacedependenceonsuchsourcesofgood,Edmundwascontributingtohisfather’seasebyimprovementintheonlypointinwhichhehadgivenhimpainbefore——
improvementinhisspirits。AfterwanderingaboutandsittingundertreeswithFannyallthesummerevenings,hehadsowelltalkedhismindintosubmissionastobeverytolerablycheerfulagain。
ThesewerethecircumstancesandthehopeswhichgraduallybroughttheiralleviationtoSirThomas,deadeninghissenseofwhatwaslost,andinpartreconcilinghimtohimself;
thoughtheanguisharisingfromtheconvictionofhisownerrorsintheeducationofhisdaughterswasnevertobeentirelydoneaway。
ToolatehebecameawarehowunfavourabletothecharacterofanyyoungpeoplemustbethetotallyoppositetreatmentwhichMariaandJuliahadbeenalwaysexperiencingathome,wheretheexcessiveindulgenceandflatteryoftheiraunthadbeencontinuallycontrastedwithhisownseverity。
Hesawhowillhehadjudged,inexpectingtocounteractwhatwaswronginMrs。Norrisbyitsreverseinhimself;
clearlysawthathehadbutincreasedtheevilbyteachingthemtorepresstheirspiritsinhispresencesoastomaketheirrealdispositionunknowntohim,andsendingthemforalltheirindulgencestoapersonwhohadbeenabletoattachthemonlybytheblindnessofheraffection,andtheexcessofherpraise。
Herehadbeengrievousmismanagement;but,badasitwas,hegraduallygrewtofeelthatithadnotbeenthemostdirefulmistakeinhisplanofeducation。Somethingmusthavebeenwanting_within_,ortimewouldhavewornawaymuchofitsilleffect。Hefearedthatprinciple,activeprinciple,hadbeenwanting;thattheyhadneverbeenproperlytaughttogoverntheirinclinationsandtempersbythatsenseofdutywhichcanalonesuffice。
Theyhadbeeninstructedtheoreticallyintheirreligion,butneverrequiredtobringitintodailypractice。
Tobedistinguishedforeleganceandaccomplishments,theauthorisedobjectoftheiryouth,couldhavehadnousefulinfluencethatway,nomoraleffectonthemind。
Hehadmeantthemtobegood,buthiscareshadbeendirectedtotheunderstandingandmanners,notthedisposition;
andofthenecessityofself-denialandhumility,hefearedtheyhadneverheardfromanylipsthatcouldprofitthem。
Bitterlydidhedeploreadeficiencywhichnowhecouldscarcelycomprehendtohavebeenpossible。
Wretchedlydidhefeel,thatwithallthecostandcareofananxiousandexpensiveeducation,hehadbroughtuphisdaughterswithouttheirunderstandingtheirfirstduties,orhisbeingacquaintedwiththeircharacterandtemper。
ThehighspiritandstrongpassionsofMrs。Rushworth,especially,weremadeknowntohimonlyintheirsadresult。
ShewasnottobeprevailedontoleaveMr。Crawford。
Shehopedtomarryhim,andtheycontinuedtogethertillshewasobligedtobeconvincedthatsuchhopewasvain,andtillthedisappointmentandwretchednessarisingfromtheconvictionrenderedhertempersobad,andherfeelingsforhimsolikehatred,astomakethemforawhileeachother’spunishment,andtheninduceavoluntaryseparation。
ShehadlivedwithhimtobereproachedastheruinofallhishappinessinFanny,andcarriedawaynobetterconsolationinleavinghimthanthatshe_had_dividedthem。
Whatcanexceedthemiseryofsuchamindinsuchasituation?
Mr。Rushworthhadnodifficultyinprocuringadivorce;
andsoendedamarriagecontractedundersuchcircumstancesastomakeanybetterendtheeffectofgoodlucknottobereckonedon。Shehaddespisedhim,andlovedanother;
andhehadbeenverymuchawarethatitwasso。
Theindignitiesofstupidity,andthedisappointmentsofselfishpassion,canexcitelittlepity。Hispunishmentfollowedhisconduct,asdidadeeperpunishmentthedeeperguiltofhiswife。_He_wasreleasedfromtheengagementtobemortifiedandunhappy,tillsomeotherprettygirlcouldattracthimintomatrimonyagain,andhemightsetforwardonasecond,and,itistobehoped,moreprosperoustrialofthestate:ifduped,tobedupedatleastwithgoodhumourandgoodluck;
whileshemustwithdrawwithinfinitelystrongerfeelingstoaretirementandreproachwhichcouldallownosecondspringofhopeorcharacter。
Whereshecouldbeplacedbecameasubjectofmostmelancholyandmomentousconsultation。Mrs。Norris,whoseattachmentseemedtoaugmentwiththedemeritsofherniece,wouldhavehadherreceivedathomeandcountenancedbythemall。SirThomaswouldnothearofit;
andMrs。Norris’sangeragainstFannywassomuchthegreater,fromconsidering_her_residencethereasthemotive。
Shepersistedinplacinghisscruplesto_her_account,thoughSirThomasverysolemnlyassuredherthat,hadtherebeennoyoungwomaninquestion,hadtherebeennoyoungpersonofeithersexbelongingtohim,tobeendangeredbythesocietyorhurtbythecharacterofMrs。Rushworth,hewouldneverhaveofferedsogreataninsulttotheneighbourhoodastoexpectittonoticeher。
Asadaughter,hehopedapenitentone,sheshouldbeprotectedbyhim,andsecuredineverycomfort,andsupportedbyeveryencouragementtodoright,whichtheirrelativesituationsadmitted;butfartherthan_that_hecouldnotgo。
Mariahaddestroyedherowncharacter,andhewouldnot,byavainattempttorestorewhatnevercouldberestored,byaffordinghissanctiontovice,orinseekingtolessenitsdisgrace,beanywiseaccessorytointroducingsuchmiseryinanotherman’sfamilyashehadknownhimself。
ItendedinMrs。Norris’sresolvingtoquitMansfieldanddevoteherselftoherunfortunateMaria,andinanestablishmentbeingformedfortheminanothercountry,remoteandprivate,where,shutuptogetherwithlittlesociety,ononesidenoaffection,ontheothernojudgment,itmaybereasonablysupposedthattheirtempersbecametheirmutualpunishment。
Mrs。Norris’sremovalfromMansfieldwasthegreatsupplementarycomfortofSirThomas’slife。HisopinionofherhadbeensinkingfromthedayofhisreturnfromAntigua:
ineverytransactiontogetherfromthatperiod,intheirdailyintercourse,inbusiness,orinchat,shehadbeenregularlylosinggroundinhisesteem,andconvincinghimthateithertimehaddonehermuchdisservice,orthathehadconsiderablyover-ratedhersense,andwonderfullybornewithhermannersbefore。Hehadfeltherasanhourlyevil,whichwassomuchtheworse,asthereseemednochanceofitsceasingbutwithlife;
sheseemedapartofhimselfthatmustbeborneforever。
Toberelievedfromher,therefore,wassogreatafelicitythat,hadshenotleftbitterremembrancesbehindher,theremighthavebeendangerofhislearningalmosttoapprovetheevilwhichproducedsuchagood。
ShewasregrettedbynooneatMansfield。Shehadneverbeenabletoattacheventhoseshelovedbest;andsinceMrs。Rushworth’selopement,hertemperhadbeeninastateofsuchirritationastomakehereverywheretormenting。
NotevenFannyhadtearsforauntNorris,notevenwhenshewasgoneforever。
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