Societyandconversation,therefore,arethemostpowerfulremediesforrestoringthemindtoitstranquillity,if,atanytime,ithasunfortunatelylostit;aswellasthebestpreservativesofthatequalandhappytemper,whichissonecessarytoself-satisfactionandenjoyment。Menofretirementandspeculation,whoareapttositbroodingathomeovereithergrieforresentment,thoughtheymayoftenhavemorehumanity,moregenerosity,andanicersenseofhonour,yetseldompossessthatequalityoftemperwhichissocommonamongmenoftheworld。
OftheamiableandrespectablevirtuesUponthesetwodifferentefforts,uponthatofthespectatortoenterintothesentimentsofthepersonprincipallyconcerned,anduponthatofthepersonprincipallyconcerned,tobringdownhisemotionstowhatthespectatorcangoalongwith,arefoundedtwodifferentsetsofvirtues。Thesoft,thegentle,theamiablevirtues,thevirtuesofcandidcondescensionandindulgenthumanity,arefoundedupontheone:thegreat,theawfulandrespectable,thevirtuesofself-denial,ofself-government,ofthatcommandofthepassionswhichsubjectsallthemovementsofournaturetowhatourowndignityandhonour,andtheproprietyofourownconductrequire,taketheiroriginfromtheother。
Howamiabledoesheappeartobe,whosesympatheticheartseemstoreechoallthesentimentsofthosewithwhomheconverses,whogrievesfortheircalamities,whoresentstheirinjuries,andwhorejoicesattheirgoodfortune!Whenwebringhometoourselvesthesituationofhiscompanions,weenterintotheirgratitude,andfeelwhatconsolationtheymustderivefromthetendersympathyofsoaffectionateafriend。Andforacontraryreason,howdisagreeabledoesheappeartobe,whosehardandobdurateheartfeelsforhimselfonly,butisaltogetherinsensibletothehappinessormiseryofothers!Weenter,inthiscasetoo,intothepainwhichhispresencemustgivetoeverymortalwithwhomheconverses,tothoseespeciallywithwhomwearemostapttosympathize,theunfortunateandtheinjured。
Ontheotherhand,whatnobleproprietyandgracedowefeelintheconductofthosewho,intheirowncase,exertthatrecollectionandself-commandwhichconstitutethedignityofeverypassion,andwhichbringitdowntowhatotherscanenterinto!Wearedisgustedwiththatclamorousgrief,which,withoutanydelicacy,callsuponourcompassionwithsighsandtearsandimportunatelamentations。Butwereverencethatreserved,thatsilentandmajesticsorrow,whichdiscoversitselfonlyintheswellingoftheeyes,inthequiveringofthelipsandcheeks,andinthedistant,butaffecting,coldnessofthewholebehaviour。Itimposesthelikesilenceuponus。Weregarditwithrespectfulattention,andwatchwithanxiousconcernoverourwholebehaviour,lestbyanyimproprietyweshoulddisturbthatconcertedtranquillity,whichitrequiressogreatanefforttosupport。
Theinsolenceandbrutalityofanger,inthesamemanner,whenweindulgeitsfurywithoutcheckorrestraint,is,ofallobjects,themostdetestable。Butweadmirethatnobleandgenerousresentmentwhichgovernsitspursuitofthegreatestinjuries,notbytheragewhichtheyareapttoexciteinthebreastofthesufferer,butbytheindignationwhichtheynaturallycallforthinthatoftheimpartialspectator;whichallowsnoword,nogesture,toescapeitbeyondwhatthismoreequitablesentimentwoulddictate;whichnever,eveninthought,attemptsanygreatervengeance,nordesirestoinflictanygreaterpunishment,thanwhateveryindifferentpersonwouldrejoicetoseeexecuted。
Andhenceitis,thattofeelmuchforothersandlittleforourselves,thattorestrainourselfish,andtoindulgeourbenevolentaffections,constitutestheperfectionofhumannature;andcanaloneproduceamongmankindthatharmonyofsentimentsandpassionsinwhichconsiststheirwholegraceandpropriety。AstoloveourneighbourasweloveourselvesisthegreatlawofChristianity,soitisthegreatpreceptofnaturetoloveourselvesonlyasweloveourneighbour,orwhatcomestothesamething,asourneighbouriscapableoflovingus。
Astasteandgoodjudgment,whentheyareconsideredasqualitieswhichdeservepraiseandadmiration,aresupposedtoimplyadelicacyofsentimentandanacutenessofunderstandingnotcommonlytobemetwith;sothevirtuesofsensibilityandself-commandarenotapprehendedtoconsistintheordinary,butintheuncommondegreesofthosequalities。Theamiablevirtueofhumanityrequires,surely,asensibility,muchbeyondwhatispossessedbytherudevulgarofmankind。Thegreatandexaltedvirtueofmagnanimityundoubtedlydemandsmuchmorethanthatdegreeofself-command,whichtheweakestofmortalsiscapableofexerting。Asinthecommondegreeoftheintellectualqualities,thereisnoabilities;sointhecommondegreeofthemoral,thereisnovirtue。Virtueisexcellence,somethinguncommonlygreatandbeautiful,whichrisesfarabovewhatisvulgarandordinary。Theamiablevirtuesconsistinthatdegreeofsensibilitywhichsurprisesbyitsexquisiteandunexpecteddelicacyandtenderness。Theawfulandrespectable,inthatdegreeofself-commandwhichastonishesbyitsamazingsuperiorityoverthemostungovernablepassionsofhumannature。
Thereis,inthisrespect,aconsiderabledifferencebetweenvirtueandmerepropriety;betweenthosequalitiesandactionswhichdeservetobeadmiredandcelebrated,andthosewhichsimplydeservetobeapprovedof。Uponmanyoccasions,toactwiththemostperfectpropriety,requiresnomorethanthatcommonandordinarydegreeofsensibilityorself-commandwhichthemostworthlessofmankindarepossestof,andsometimeseventhatdegreeisnotnecessary。Thus,togiveaverylowinstance,toeatwhenwearehungry,iscertainly,uponordinaryoccasions,perfectlyrightandproper,andcannotmissbeingapprovedofassuchbyeverybody。Nothing,however,couldbemoreabsurdthantosayitwasvirtuous。
Onthecontrary,theremayfrequentlybeaconsiderabledegreeofvirtueinthoseactionswhichfallshortofthemostperfectpropriety;becausetheymaystillapproachnearertoperfectionthancouldwellbeexpecteduponoccasionsinwhichitwassoextremelydifficulttoattainit:andthisisveryoftenthecaseuponthoseoccasionswhichrequirethegreatestexertionsofself-command。Therearesomesituationswhichbearsoharduponhumannature,thatthegreatestdegreeofself-government,whichcanbelongtosoimperfectacreatureasman,isnotabletostifle,altogether,thevoiceofhumanweakness,orreducetheviolenceofthepassionstothatpitchofmoderation,inwhichtheimpartialspectatorcanentirelyenterintothem。Thoughinthosecases,therefore,thebehaviourofthesuffererfallshortofthemostperfectpropriety,itmaystilldeservesomeapplause,andeveninacertainsense,maybedenominatedvirtuous。Itmaystillmanifestaneffortofgenerosityandmagnanimityofwhichthegreaterpartofmenareincapable;andthoughitfailsofabsoluteperfection,itmaybeamuchnearerapproximationtowardsperfection,thanwhat,uponsuchtryingoccasions,iscommonlyeithertobefoundortobeexpected。
Incasesofthiskind,whenwearedeterminingthedegreeofblameorapplausewhichseemsduetoanyaction,weveryfrequentlymakeuseoftwodifferentstandards。Thefirstistheideaofcompleteproprietyandperfection,which,inthosedifficultsituations,nohumanconducteverdid,orevercancome,upto;andincomparisonwithwhichtheactionsofallmenmustforeverappearblameableandimperfect。Thesecondistheideaofthatdegreeofproximityordistancefromthiscompleteperfection,whichtheactionsofthegreaterpartofmencommonlyarriveat。Whatevergoesbeyondthisdegree,howfarsoeveritmayberemovedfromabsoluteperfection,seemstodeserveapplause;andwhateverfallsshortofit,todeserveblame。
Itisinthesamemannerthatwejudgeoftheproductionsofalltheartswhichaddressthemselvestotheimagination。Whenacriticexaminestheworkofanyofthegreatmastersinpoetryorpainting,hemaysometimesexamineitbyanideaofperfection,inhisownmind,whichneitherthatnoranyotherhumanworkwillevercomeupto;andaslongashecomparesitwiththisstandard,hecanseenothinginitbutfaultsandimperfections。
Butwhenhecomestoconsidertherankwhichitoughttoholdamongotherworksofthesamekind,henecessarilycomparesitwithaverydifferentstandard,thecommondegreeofexcellencewhichisusuallyattainedinthisparticularart;andwhenhejudgesofitbythisnewmeasure,itmayoftenappeartodeservethehighestapplause,uponaccountofitsapproachingmuchnearertoperfectionthanthegreaterpartofthoseworkswhichcanbebroughtintocompetitionwithit。
OftheDegreesofthedifferentPassionswhichareconsistentwithProprietyIntroductionTheproprietyofeverypassionexcitedbyobjectspeculiarlyrelatedtoourselves,thepitchwhichthespectatorcangoalongwith,mustlie,itisevident,inacertainmediocrity。Ifthepassionistoohigh,orifitistoolow,hecannotenterintoit。Griefandresentmentforprivatemisfortunesandinjuriesmayeasily,forexample,betoohigh,andinthegreaterpartofmankindtheyareso。Theymaylikewise,thoughthismorerarelyhappens,betoolow。Wedenominatetheexcess,weaknessandfury:
andwecallthedefectstupidity,insensibility,andwantofspirit。Wecanenterintoneitherofthem,butareastonishedandconfoundedtoseethem。
Thismediocrity,however,inwhichthepointofproprietyconsists,isdifferentindifferentpassions。Itishighinsome,andlowinothers。Therearesomepassionswhichitisindecenttoexpressverystrongly,evenuponthoseoccasions,inwhichitisacknowledgedthatwecannotavoidfeelingtheminthehighestdegree。Andthereareothersofwhichthestrongestexpressionsareuponmanyoccasionsextremelygraceful,eventhoughthepassionsthemselvesdonot,perhaps,arisesonecessarily。Thefirstarethosepassionswithwhich,forcertainreasons,thereislittleornosympathy:thesecondarethosewithwhich,forotherreasons,thereisthegreatest。Andifweconsiderallthedifferentpassionsofhumannature,weshallfindthattheyareregardedasdecent,orindecent,justinproportionasmankindaremoreorlessdisposedtosympathizewiththem。