Ourfirstideasofpersonalbeautyanddeformity,aredrawnfromtheshapeandappearanceofothers,notfromourown。Wesoonbecomesensible,however,thatothersexercisethesamecriticismuponus。Wearepleasedwhentheyapproveofourfigure,andaredisobligedwhentheyseemtobedisgusted。Webecomeanxioustoknowhowfarourappearancedeserveseithertheirblameorapprobation。Weexamineourpersonslimbbylimb,andbyplacingourselvesbeforealooking-glass,orbysomesuchexpedient,endeavour,asmuchaspossible,toviewourselvesatthedistanceandwiththeeyesofotherpeople。If,afterthisexamination,wearesatisfiedwithourownappearance,wecanmoreeasilysupportthemostdisadvantageousjudgmentsofothers。
If,onthecontrary,wearesensiblethatwearethenaturalobjectsofdistaste,everyappearanceoftheirdisapprobationmortifiesusbeyondallmeasure。Amanwhoistolerablyhandsome,willallowyoutolaughatanylittleirregularityinhisperson;
butallsuchjokesarecommonlyunsupportabletoonewhoisreallydeformed。Itisevident,however,thatweareanxiousaboutourownbeautyanddeformity,onlyuponaccountofitseffectuponothers。Ifwehadnoconnexionwithsociety,weshouldbealtogetherindifferentabouteither。
Inthesamemannerourfirstmoralcriticismsareexerciseduponthecharactersandconductofotherpeople;andweareallveryforwardtoobservehoweachoftheseaffectsus。Butwesoonlearn,thatotherpeopleareequallyfrankwithregardtoourown。Webecomeanxioustoknowhowfarwedeservetheircensureorapplause,andwhethertothemwemustnecessarilyappearthoseagreeableordisagreeablecreatureswhichtheyrepresentus。Webegin,uponthisaccount,toexamineourownpassionsandconduct,andtoconsiderhowthesemustappeartothem,byconsideringhowtheywouldappeartousifintheirsituation。Wesupposeourselvesthespectatorsofourownbehaviour,andendeavourtoimaginewhateffectitwould,inthislight,produceuponus。Thisistheonlylooking-glassbywhichwecan,insomemeasure,withtheeyesofotherpeople,scrutinizetheproprietyofourownconduct。Ifinthisviewitpleasesus,wearetolerablysatisfied。Wecanbemoreindifferentabouttheapplause,and,insomemeasure,despisethecensureoftheworld。
securethat,howevermisunderstoodormisrepresented,wearethenaturalandproperobjectsofapprobation。Onthecontrary,ifwearedoubtfulaboutit,weareoften,uponthatveryaccount,moreanxioustogaintheirapprobation,and,providedwehavenotalready,astheysay,shakenhandswithinfamy,wearealtogetherdistractedatthethoughtsoftheircensure,whichthenstrikesuswithdoubleseverity。
WhenIendeavourtoexaminemyownconduct,whenIendeavourtopasssentenceuponit,andeithertoapproveorcondemnit,itisevidentthat,inallsuchcases,Idividemyself,asitwere,intotwopersons;andthatI,theexaminerandjudge,representadifferentcharacterfromthatotherI,thepersonwhoseconductisexaminedintoandjudgedof。Thefirstisthespectator,whosesentimentswithregardtomyownconductIendeavourtoenterinto,byplacingmyselfinhissituation,andbyconsideringhowitwouldappeartome,whenseenfromthatparticularpointofview。Thesecondistheagent,thepersonwhomIproperlycallmyself,andofwhoseconduct,underthecharacterofaspectator,Iwasendeavouringtoformsomeopinion。Thefirstisthejudge;
thesecondthepersonjudgedof。Butthatthejudgeshould,ineveryrespect,bethesamewiththepersonjudgedof,isasimpossible,asthatthecauseshould,ineveryrespect,bethesamewiththeeffect。
Tobeamiableandtobemeritorious;thatis,todeserveloveandtodeservereward,arethegreatcharactersofvirtue;andtobeodiousandpunishable,ofvice。Butallthesecharactershaveanimmediatereferencetothesentimentsofothers。Virtueisnotsaidtobeamiable,ortobemeritorious,becauseitistheobjectofitsownlove,orofitsowngratitude;butbecauseitexcitesthosesentimentsinothermen。Theconsciousnessthatitistheobjectofsuchfavourableregards,isthesourceofthatinwardtranquillityandself-satisfactionwithwhichitisnaturallyattended,asthesuspicionofthecontrarygivesoccasiontothetormentsofvice。Whatsogreathappinessastobebeloved,andtoknowthatwedeservetobebeloved?Whatsogreatmiseryastobehated,andtoknowthatwedeservetobehated?
OftheloveofPraise,andofthatofPraise-worthiness;andofthedreadofBlame,andofthatofBlame-worthinessMannaturallydesires,notonlytobeloved,buttobelovely;ortobethatthingwhichisthenaturalandproperobjectoflove。Henaturallydreads,notonlytobehated,buttobehateful;ortobethatthingwhichisthenaturalandproperobjectofhatred。Hedesires,notonlypraise,butpraiseworthiness;ortobethatthingwhich,thoughitshouldbepraisedbynobody,is,however,thenaturalandproperobjectofpraise。Hedreads,notonlyblame,butblame-worthiness;ortobethatthingwhich,thoughitshouldbeblamedbynobody,is,however,thenaturalandproperobjectofblame。
Theloveofpraise-worthinessisbynomeansderivedaltogetherfromtheloveofpraise。Thosetwoprinciples,thoughtheyresembleoneanother,thoughtheyareconnected,andoftenblendedwithoneanother,areyet,inmanyrespects,distinctandindependentofoneanother。
Theloveandadmirationwhichwenaturallyconceiveforthosewhosecharacterandconductweapproveof,necessarilydisposeustodesiretobecomeourselvestheobjectsofthelikeagreeablesentiments,andtobeasamiableandasadmirableasthosewhomweloveandadmirethemost。Emulation,theanxiousdesirethatweourselvesshouldexcel,isoriginallyfoundedinouradmirationoftheexcellenceofothers。Neithercanwebesatisfiedwithbeingmerelyadmiredforwhatotherpeopleareadmired。Wemustatleastbelieveourselvestobeadmirableforwhattheyareadmirable。But,inordertoattainthissatisfaction,wemustbecometheimpartialspectatorsofourowncharacterandconduct。Wemustendeavourtoviewthemwiththeeyesofotherpeople,orasotherpeoplearelikelytoviewthem。
Whenseeninthislight,iftheyappeartousaswewish,wearehappyandcontented。Butitgreatlyconfirmsthishappinessandcontentmentwhenwefindthatotherpeople,viewingthemwiththoseveryeyeswithwhichwe,inimaginationonly,wereendeavouringtoviewthem,seethempreciselyinthesamelightinwhichweourselveshadseenthem。Theirapprobationnecessarilyconfirmsourownself-approbation。Theirpraisenecessarilystrengthensourownsenseofourownpraiseworthiness。Inthiscase,sofaristheloveofpraise-worthinessfrombeingderivedaltogetherfromthatofpraise;thattheloveofpraiseseems,atleastinagreatmeasure,tobederivedfromthatofpraise-worthiness。
Themostsincerepraisecangivelittlepleasurewhenitcannotbeconsideredassomesortofproofofpraise-worthiness。
Itisbynomeanssufficientthat,fromignoranceormistake,esteemandadmirationshould,insomewayorother,bebestoweduponus。Ifweareconsciousthatwedonotdeservetobesofavourablythoughtof,andthatifthetruthwereknown,weshouldberegardedwithverydifferentsentiments,oursatisfactionisfarfrombeingcomplete。Themanwhoapplaudsuseitherforactionswhichwedidnotperform,orformotiveswhichhadnosortofinfluenceuponourconduct,applaudsnotus,butanotherperson。Wecanderivenosortofsatisfactionfromhispraises。Toustheyshouldbemoremortifyingthananycensure,andshouldperpetuallycalltoourminds,themosthumblingofallreflections,thereflectionofwhatweoughttobe,butwhatwearenot。Awomanwhopaints,couldderive,oneshouldimagine,butlittlevanityfromthecomplimentsthatarepaidtohercomplexion。These,weshouldexpect,oughtrathertoputherinmindofthesentimentswhichherrealcomplexionwouldexcite,andmortifyherthemorebythecontrast。Tobepleasedwithsuchgroundlessapplauseisaproofofthemostsuperficiallevityandweakness。Itiswhatisproperlycalledvanity,andisthefoundationofthemostridiculousandcontemptiblevices,thevicesofaffectationandcommonlying;follieswhich,ifexperiencedidnotteachushowcommontheyare,oneshouldimaginetheleastsparkofcommonsensewouldsaveusfrom。Thefoolishliar,whoendeavourstoexcitetheadmirationofthecompanybytherelationofadventureswhichneverhadanyexistence;theimportantcoxcomb,whogiveshimselfairsofrankanddistinctionwhichhewellknowshehasnojustpretensionsto;arebothofthem,nodoubt,pleasedwiththeapplausewhichtheyfancytheymeetwith。Buttheirvanityarisesfromsogrossanillusionoftheimagination,thatitisdifficulttoconceivehowanyrationalcreatureshouldbeimposeduponbyit。Whentheyplacethemselvesinthesituationofthosewhomtheyfancytheyhavedeceived,theyarestruckwiththehighestadmirationfortheirownpersons。Theylookuponthemselves,notinthatlightinwhich,theyknow,theyoughttoappeartotheircompanions,butinthatinwhichtheybelievetheircompanionsactuallylookuponthem。Theirsuperficialweaknessandtrivialfollyhinderthemfromeverturningtheireyesinwards,orfromseeingthemselvesinthatdespicablepointofviewinwhichtheirownconsciencesmusttellthemthattheywouldappeartoeverybody,iftherealtruthshouldevercometobeknown。
Asignorantandgroundlesspraisecangivenosolidjoy,nosatisfactionthatwillbearanyseriousexamination,so,onthecontrary,itoftengivesrealcomforttoreflect,thatthoughnopraiseshouldactuallybebestoweduponus,ourconduct,however,hasbeensuchastodeserveit,andhasbeenineveryrespectsuitabletothosemeasuresandrulesbywhichpraiseandapprobationarenaturallyandcommonlybestowed。Wearepleased,notonlywithpraise,butwithhavingdonewhatispraise-worthy。
Wearepleasedtothinkthatwehaverenderedourselvesthenaturalobjectsofapprobation,thoughnoapprobationshouldeveractuallybebestoweduponus:andwearemortifiedtoreflectthatwehavejustlymeritedtheblameofthosewelivewith,thoughthatsentimentshouldneveractuallybeexertedagainstus。Themanwhoisconscioustohimselfthathehasexactlyobservedthosemeasuresofconductwhichexperienceinformshimaregenerallyagreeable,reflectswithsatisfactionontheproprietyofhisownbehaviour。Whenheviewsitinthelightinwhichtheimpartialspectatorwouldviewit,hethoroughlyentersintoallthemotiveswhichinfluencedit。Helooksbackuponeverypartofitwithpleasureandapprobation,andthoughmankindshouldneverbeacquaintedwithwhathehasdone,heregardshimself,notsomuchaccordingtothelightinwhichtheyactuallyregardhim,asaccordingtothatinwhichtheywouldregardhimiftheywerebetterinformed。Heanticipatestheapplauseandadmirationwhichinthiscasewouldbebestoweduponhim,andheapplaudsandadmireshimselfbysympathywithsentiments,whichdonotindeedactuallytakeplace,butwhichtheignoranceofthepublicalonehindersfromtakingplace,whichheknowsarethenaturalandordinaryeffectsofsuchconduct,whichhisimaginationstronglyconnectswithit,andwhichhehasacquiredahabitofconceivingassomethingthatnaturallyandinproprietyoughttofollowfromit。Menhavevoluntarilythrownawaylifetoacquireafterdeatharenownwhichtheycouldnolongerenjoy。Theirimagination,inthemeantime,anticipatedthatfamewhichwasinfuturetimestobebestoweduponthem。Thoseapplauseswhichtheywerenevertohearrungintheirears;thethoughtsofthatadmiration,whoseeffectstheywerenevertofeel,playedabouttheirhearts,banishedfromtheirbreaststhestrongestofallnaturalfears,andtransportedthemtoperformactionswhichseemalmostbeyondthereachofhumannature。Butinpointofrealitythereissurelynogreatdifferencebetweenthatapprobationwhichisnottobebestowedtillwecannolongerenjoyit,andthatwhich,indeed,isnevertobebestowed,butwhichwouldbebestowed,iftheworldwasevermadetounderstandproperlytherealcircumstancesofourbehaviour。Iftheoneoftenproducessuchviolenteffects,wecannotwonderthattheothershouldalwaysbehighlyregarded。
Nature,whensheformedmanforsociety,endowedhimwithanoriginaldesiretoplease,andanoriginalaversiontooffendhisbrethren。Shetaughthimtofeelpleasureintheirfavourable,andpainintheirunfavourableregard。Sherenderedtheirapprobationmostflatteringandmostagreeabletohimforitsownsake;andtheirdisapprobationmostmortifyingandmostoffensive。
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