Ihave,asIsaidbefore,learnedtheEnglishlawpiecemeal,bysufferingunderit。Myhusbandisalawyer;andhehastaughtitme,byexercisingovermytormentedandrestlesslife,everyquirkandnibbleofitstyranny;ofitsacknowledgedtyranny;——acknowledged,againIsay,notbywailing,angry,despairingwomen,butbyChancellors,ex-Chancellors,legalreformers,andmembersofbothHousesofParliament。Andyetnothingisdone!indeed,whentheSolicitor-General,May10th,inthissession,informedtheHousethatthedelayedMarriageBillwouldbebroughtforward"assoonastheHousehadexpressedanopinionontheTestamentaryJurisdictionBill,"therewasagood-humouredlaughattheveryvagueprospectheldout,——butnobodymurmured;forPage146
nobodygreatlycaredwhenitshouldcomeon;orwhetheritevercameonatall。
Nevertheless,solongashumannatureiswhatitis,somemarriagesmustbeunhappymarriages,insteadoffollowingthattheoryofintimateandsacredunionwhichtheyoughttofulfil:andthequestionis,therefore,whatistobetherelationofpersonslivinginastateofalienation,insteadofastateofunion,——alltheexistingrulesfortheirsocialpositionbeingbasedonthefirstalternative,——namely,thattheyareinastateofunion,——andonthesuppositionthatmarriageisindissoluble,thoughParliamenthasnowdecidedthatitisacivilcontract?Divorcedorundivorced,itisabsolutelynecessarythatthelawshouldstepin,toarrangethatwhichisdisarrangedbythismostunnaturalcondition。Itbecomesperfectlyabsurdthatthelawwhichappointsthehusbandlegalprotectorofthewoman,shouldnotfailinghimwhohasceasedtobeaprotector,andhasbecomeaverypowerfulfoeitselfundertakeherprotection。Shestandstowardsthelaw,byanillustrationwhichI
haverepeatedlymadeuseof,——inthelightofanill-usedinferior;andsheistheonlyinferiorinEnglandwhocannotclaimtobesoprotected。
Thosewomenwhodesiretolearn,inamorePage147
formalanddirectmanner,whatthelawsare,——haveonlytorefertoMacqueen,Ferguson,Hosack,andotherlawwriters。Theretheymayread,——thatifacollectioncouldbemadeofallmunicipalrulesastodivorce,it"wouldappearlittlebetterthanaludicrousexhibitionofhumaninconsistencyandcaprice;"that,tillthecelebratedCouncilofTrent,eventheRomanCatholicChurchhadbeen"constantlyshiftingtoallpointsbetweentheoppositeextremesonthesubjectofdivorce;"thatundertheGreekChurch,andintheProtestantstatesofEurope,theutmostdiversityofrulesstillprevails,——"fromtheextremeofrefusingtogivedivorceavinculo,evenforadultery,——totheoppositeextremeofallowingdissolutionofmarriageforcauseswhichourlawaccountsperfectlyfrivolous;"thatwhentheCouncilofTrentpromulgateditscanonsDesacramentoMatrimonii,thesamechapterwhichsaid,"Accursedishewhoaffirmsthatmarriagecanbemadedissoluble,"alsocontainedasimilaranathemaagainstanyonewhoshouldaffirmmarriagetobeasuperiorconditiontovirginityorastateofcelibacy——anyonewhoshouldaffirmitsuperstitioustoforbidmarriageatcertainseasonsoftheyear——oranyonewhodeniedthattherightofjurisdictionPage148
inmatrimonialcasesbelongstotheEcclesiasticalCourts;
underwhichlastcanonwillcomeLordsCranworthandCampbell,andallthePeersandCommonsvotingwiththemforreforminthepiecemeallawofEngland;——ofthatcountrywhichpublishesaLiturgyforitsEstablishedChurch,containingaRomanCatholicceremonyformarriage;overrulesthevowsofthatceremonybyActsofParliament;evadesthembytheMarriageRegistrationAct;solemnlyquotesthem,asanargumentforkeepingwomentotheindissolublebond;andsetsthematdefianceasaforminvolvingnolegalobligation,whentheindissolublebondistobebrokenformen!
There,also,womenmaycomfortthemselvesbyreading,thatLordEldon,afterthirtyyears'experienceinthehighestcourtofjudicatureinthekingdom,reversedhisearlieropinions,andstatedthathe"sawnoreasonwhyawomanwasnotasmuchentitledtosuefordivorceasaman:"——thatMrHallamwrites,——"Nothingcanbemoreabsurdthanourmodernprivilegia;ourActsofParliamenttobreakthemarriagebond;neitherdoIseehowwecanjustifythedenialofredresstowomen,ineverycaseofadulteryanddesertion:"——thatMontesquieuaffirmedthelawtobe"verytyran-Page149
nical"whichgivestherighttomenanddeniesittowomen;——adding,thatwomenarelesslikelytoabusetheprivilegethanmen,becauseawomanrarelyimprovesherpositionbyrepudiatingherhusband。
TheymayreadMilton,Gibbon,andHume,——orthemorepiousPaley,——insuchchaptersandsectionsoftheseauthorsastreatonthesubject。Theymayreadalso,howtheScotchandEnglishsubjectsofQueenVictoriaareasdifferentlydealtwithasthoughtheyweresubjectsoftwodifferentcountries,andundertwodifferentsovereigns;andhow,fromtimetotime,greatandclevermenhaveexpressedtheiropinionoftheabsolutenecessityof"assimilating"thoseconflictinglaws。
Theymayreadlistsofthenamesofthoseatpresentemployedinlawofficesunderthecrown:andfind,totheiramazement,——inthathelplessgroupwhoconsiderthesereforms"sosurroundedwithdifficulty,"thattheycandonothing,——LordChancellorCranworth,andLordChiefJusticeCampbell,headingfamousandfamiliarlawyer——names;some,withalreadyanhereditaryclaimtodistinction,andsome,whoseableandenergeticpleadingwillmaketheirnamesaboasttotheirsons。TheymayreferPage150
totheformerspeechesofmenlikeLyndhurstandBrougham,——whosecelebritybegansoearlyinlife,thattheyarestillheretoenjoyandaddtoit;thoughtheiryouthfultriumphsarealmostamatterofhistorytotherisinggeneration。Allthis,womenmaystudy:andwhentheyhavereadallwhichtheyhavetime,patience,orinclinationtoread,andabilitytounderstand,——theymaytaketheircrochet-work,embroidery,or"Potichomanie,"
andruminateovertheirneedlesandpaste-brushes,howitisthatlawscontinuetobeinforce,whichsuchmenthemselveshavesorepeatedlycondemned,asamassoffolly,indecency,andcontradiction!
Ihope,duringthisperiodoftranquilreflection,therebelliousthoughtmaynotoccurtothetapestry-workingsex,thattheobstacletothislegalreformmustbe,thatmenfeartocurbthelicenseoftheirownpleasures。Itisimpossible,seeinghoweager,energetic,andenthusiastic,menareinotherreformswhosenecessityisonceprovedandadmitted,nottofancythatthereasonwhythisparticularchangeis"sosurroundedwithdifficulty"isbecauseitisextremelyunpalatabletothereformers!Ithink——tousethewordsoftheSolicitor-General——Page151
theHouse"willexpressanopinionontheTestamentaryJurisdictionBill"withinfinitelymorespeed,clearness,anddecision,thanonaMarriageReformBill。Everymanseemstodreadthatheissurrenderingsomeportionofhisownrightsoverwoman,inallowingtheselawstoberevised;evenwhileheadmitsthatabuseswhichare"adisgracetoEngland,"blotthestrangebarbarouscode,whichremainsintactwhileotherbarbarouslawshavegraduallybeenrepealedoraltered。
Toallthatwomencanreadonthesubject,Iaddthismorefamiliarlyeasytreatise;andIshallfollowthistreatisebyapublishedselectionof"Cases,decidedaccordingtoLaw,andcontrarytoJustice;"admittedtobesodecidedevenbythejudgesandcounselengagedinthem;thesentencesgivenbeingoftenaccompaniedbycourteousandsincereexpressionsofregretattheirmanifestoppression;andbyahopethatthecodemightbealtered,whichmadesuchsentencescompulsoryonthepersonswhosedutyitwas"toadministerthelawastheyfoundit。"Myhusbandhastaughtme,bysubpoenaingmypublisherstoaccountformyearnings,——thatmygiftofwritingwasnotmeantforthepurposestowhichIhavehithertoappliedit。ItwasnotPage152
intendedthatIshould"striveforpeaceandensueit"throughalifeofmuchoccasionalbitternessandmanyunjusttrials;thatIshouldprovemyliteraryability,bypublishingmelodiesandsongsforyounggirlsandwomentosinginhappierhomesthanmine,——orpoetryandproseforthemtoreadinleisurehours,——orevenpleasemyselfbybetterandmoreseriousattemptstoadvocatetherightsofthepeople,ortheeducationandinterestsofthepoor。
WhenMrNortonallowedme,Isay,tobepubliclysubpoenaedincourt,todefendhimselfbyaquibblefromajustdebt,andsubpoenaedmypublisherstomeetmethere,hetaughtmewhatmygiftofwritingwasworth。Sincehewouldnotleaveeventhatsourcetranquilandfreeinmydestiny,lethimhavethetriumphofbeingableatoncetoembitterandtoturnitsformercurrent。Hehasmademedreamthatitwasmeantforahigherandstrongerpurpose,——thatgiftwhichcamenotfromman,butfromGod。Itwasmeanttoenablemetorousetheheartsofotherstoexamineintoallthegrossinjusticeoftheselaws,——toaskthe"nationofgallantgentlemen,"whosecountrywomanIam,foroncetohearawoman'spleadingonthesubject。NotbecauseIdeservemoreattheirhandsPage153
thanotherwomen。WellIknow,onthecontrary,howmanyhundreds,infinitelybetterthanI,——morepious,morepatient,andlessrashunderinjury,——havewateredtheirbreadwithtears!Mypleatoattentionis,thatinpleadingformyselfIamabletopleadforalltheseothers。Notthatmysufferingsormydesertsaregreaterthantheirs;butthatIcombine,withthefactofhavingsufferedwrong,thepowertocommentonandexplainthecauseofthatwrong;whichfewwomenareabletodo。
Forthis,Ibelieve,Godgavemethepowerofwriting。TothisIdevotethatpower。Iabjureallotherwriting,tillIseetheselawsaltered。Icarenotwhatridiculeorabusemaybetheresultofthatdeclaration。Theywhocannotbearridiculeandabuse,areunfitandunabletoadvanceanycause;andoncemoreIdenythatthisismypersonalcause;itisthecauseofallthewomenofEngland。IfIcouldbejustifiedandhappytomorrow,Iwouldstillstriveandlabourinit;andifIweretodieto-morrow,itwouldstillbeasatisfactiontomethatIhadsostriven。Meanwhile,myhusbandhasalegallienashehaspubliclyproved,onthecopyrightofmyworks。
LethimclaimthecopyrightofTHIS:Page154
andlettheLordChancellor,whoseofficeisthusdescribedinChamberlayne'sStateofEngland,——"Tojudge,notaccordingtotheCommonLaw,asotherCivilCourtsdo,buttomoderatetherigouroftheLaw,andtojudgeaccordingtoEquity,Conscience,andReason:andhisOathistodorighttoallmannerofPeople,poorandrich,aftertheLawsandCustomsoftheRealm,andtrulycounseltheKing,"——lettheLordChancellor,I
say,——the"SummaCancellarius"ofGreatBritain,cancel,inMrNorton'sfavour,——accordingtothelawsandcustomsofthisrealmofEngland,——myrighttothelabourofmyownbrainandpen;anddocketit,amongforgottenChanceryPapers,withaparodyofSwift'scontemptuouslabelling。
"OnlyaWoman'sPamphlet。"
ButlettherecollectionofwhatIwrite,remainwiththosewhoread;andaboveall,lettherecollectionremainwithyourMajesty,towhomitisaddressed;theonewomaninEnglandwhocannotsufferwrong;andwhoseroyalassentwillbeformallynecessarytoanyMarriageReformBillwhichtheLordChancellor,assembledPeers,andassembledCommons,mayPage155
thinkfittopass,intheParliamentofthisfreenation;where,withaQueenonthethrone,allothermarriedwomenarelegally"NON-EXISTENT。"
Iremain,Withthesincerestloyaltyandrespect,YourMajesty'shumbleanddevotedSubjectandServant,CAROLINEELIZABETHSARAHNORTON。No。3,CHESTERFIELDSTREET,MAYFAIR,This2nddayofJune,1855。